I adopted him at age 4, chocolate lab, male, he's now 9 and I've been with my husband for 2 years now. He loves my husband so much but won't walk with him unless I'm present. How do we fix this issue?My dog will only walk with me and my husband is unable to take him without me. How do I remedy that?
Have you husband walk him without you there. He's got you under his paw. He needs to learn that your husband is in control of him as well as you, you need to let them work that out without your intervention. Get some really really good treats, not the everyday stuff, but cooked chicken or something of that nature, have your husband take him on a walk, and lure him along with the chicken. Also have you husband spend time doing obedience with him daily, sit, lay down, stay, paw, etc. This will change the dog views on who is higher in the chain of command. Good Luck!My dog will only walk with me and my husband is unable to take him without me. How do I remedy that?
The way I'd go about it is, both of you go walkies, let your husband take the leash and get your husband to give lots of praise and if necessary food rewards. As you go further on the walk, drop back so you are out of the dogs sight and see how he reacts, if your man can keep him moving you can slip back and see what happens.
When you are taking him on a walk together, slowly relenish control of the leash and start slowly disappearing. Let your husband take the lead and slowly back off and eventually disappear. Have your husband carry treats and praise him every time he does well. The dog trusts you and is attached to you and he needs to know that he can do the same with your husband. He is no longer my dog, he is our dog.
Good Luck!
Your husband needs to accompany you on the walks to get your dog to see that he is part of the walk too, eventually you dog will see your husband as part of the walk, and associate your husband and a leash as a recipe for a good walk.
Won't walk with him? What does that mean? If he's on a leash and your husband walks, how can the dog NOT walk with him?
I suggest your husband take the dog to obedience class.
Realize that the dog isn't your boss, you're his master.
Your husband needs to get him on leash, get him outside and praise him everytime he walks with him.
make the dog go without you
Try a swift kick in the butt :)
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Can my husband and I file joint bankruptcy if had filed individual bankruptcy on my own just over 6 yrs ago?
I filed in October of 2001 (before we were married). Due to an extreme drop in his income, by husband is considering filing. We would like to file jointly only because we have a joint debt we would like to discharge as well. I know there are limitations as to how often an individual can file, but would that be the case in a joint bankruptcy (if one person has filed individually within the the last 6 years)? We are in Indiana, if that matters.Can my husband and I file joint bankruptcy if had filed individual bankruptcy on my own just over 6 yrs ago?
No maam, you can not...due to the changes in BK laws. However, the actual debt may be able to be included in his filing. Unlike when you filed, you now have to go through counseling and a few other ';hoops';. As you may know, contact your local BK atty. he/she will meet with you, usually free, and advise of how to proceed.
BTW, ignore the comments you will probably get regarding not managing your finances!! Most of the mid west, along with many other states, are in a time where cut backs, layoffs, plant closings are the norm (I specifically site the mid west, as the auto manufacturer issues). More successful ppl file multiple BK's than anyone even knows about.
Good Luck!Can my husband and I file joint bankruptcy if had filed individual bankruptcy on my own just over 6 yrs ago?
You need to consult an attorney-1st consult is usually free-with a ch. 13, I believe you can but the laws changed recently-I am in Indiana too and my fiancee recently filed a ch. 13.
nope you wont be able to, once every 7 years,, contact a lawyer,
Sounds like you both need to control your spending and start acting like responsable adults. You can do it, but just don't expect to have ANY credit once you come out of it. Seriously though, I would start living within your means and not spending money you don't have.
yeah so u can call the authorities and tell them to cancel it .... and then file the report again ... but from ur situation .. it looks like ur waiting long ... my advice with my answer will be try a different company
Regardless of filing jointly or independantly, you can only file a BK once every 7 yrs. and even then it depends on the circumstances and the type of BK being filed. They've changed the rules recently, so I would recommend checking with local BK attorneys. The joint debt that you have together should be able to be included on his BK since his name is on the account. They may have you sign a document agreeing to allow this account to be filed in the BK, but you can't file jointly with him since you already filed in 2001.cure acne beauty products
No maam, you can not...due to the changes in BK laws. However, the actual debt may be able to be included in his filing. Unlike when you filed, you now have to go through counseling and a few other ';hoops';. As you may know, contact your local BK atty. he/she will meet with you, usually free, and advise of how to proceed.
BTW, ignore the comments you will probably get regarding not managing your finances!! Most of the mid west, along with many other states, are in a time where cut backs, layoffs, plant closings are the norm (I specifically site the mid west, as the auto manufacturer issues). More successful ppl file multiple BK's than anyone even knows about.
Good Luck!Can my husband and I file joint bankruptcy if had filed individual bankruptcy on my own just over 6 yrs ago?
You need to consult an attorney-1st consult is usually free-with a ch. 13, I believe you can but the laws changed recently-I am in Indiana too and my fiancee recently filed a ch. 13.
nope you wont be able to, once every 7 years,, contact a lawyer,
Sounds like you both need to control your spending and start acting like responsable adults. You can do it, but just don't expect to have ANY credit once you come out of it. Seriously though, I would start living within your means and not spending money you don't have.
yeah so u can call the authorities and tell them to cancel it .... and then file the report again ... but from ur situation .. it looks like ur waiting long ... my advice with my answer will be try a different company
Regardless of filing jointly or independantly, you can only file a BK once every 7 yrs. and even then it depends on the circumstances and the type of BK being filed. They've changed the rules recently, so I would recommend checking with local BK attorneys. The joint debt that you have together should be able to be included on his BK since his name is on the account. They may have you sign a document agreeing to allow this account to be filed in the BK, but you can't file jointly with him since you already filed in 2001.
Can my husband get a bad mark on his attendance for having to go to small claims court?
My husband says he will get a half point mark down for being late because the court date and time interferes with the time he has to be at work. We are in Wisconsin. Can they do this?
We didn't pick the time and date the plaintiff did. We are merely defending our case.Can my husband get a bad mark on his attendance for having to go to small claims court?
Employer policy is up to them. If they say he gets dinged, he gets dinged.Can my husband get a bad mark on his attendance for having to go to small claims court?
Yes he can. No law requires an employer to excuse his time off. perhaps he can request the time off using the policy set by his employer.
We didn't pick the time and date the plaintiff did. We are merely defending our case.Can my husband get a bad mark on his attendance for having to go to small claims court?
Employer policy is up to them. If they say he gets dinged, he gets dinged.Can my husband get a bad mark on his attendance for having to go to small claims court?
Yes he can. No law requires an employer to excuse his time off. perhaps he can request the time off using the policy set by his employer.
How many Lean Cuisines can a wife serve a husband before his head pops off?
I cook other things too don't get me wrong. We had to have a drastic food change in our house because my husband's medicial issues. It seems like the more I put Lean Cuisines in the freezer for his ';quick fix's'; the crankier he gets?
So Husbands: Tell me.. How many can you eat before your head pops off?How many Lean Cuisines can a wife serve a husband before his head pops off?
lol Oh my Gawd I'm laughing at this one....okay, which head, Toots......lol...just the mental image has me cracking up...I'd say give it a week...and NO MORE COOL WHIP %26amp; OREOS, and....BOING! hahahahahaha....
..and I have a cranky Baby at times too...he's type 2 diabetic with a horrible sweet tooth and love of homestyle southern cooking (he's from Atlanta Georgia) I do my best...no frozen foods but all this healthy eating is gonna cause a head pop here one day, I'm sure. I offset it by letting him have his fav sausage gravy %26amp; biscuits (mine's da Bomb!) once in a while..it neutralizes the head popping effect....lol still laughing.How many Lean Cuisines can a wife serve a husband before his head pops off?
I actually enjoy a lot of the Lean Cuisines, etc...they just aren't that big and usually need something else.
What you might want to try is dressing up the meal. Instead of serving it in the plastic container it comes in, try putting it on a plate. Take a few extra seconds to zap another frozen veggie to go with it, or get some dinner rolls. You might find your husband finds the meal more enjoyable because it actually is a meal.
If that doesn't work, give him a beer to drink with it. That should solve everything.
Well I do not think his head will literal pop off, I eat them every day and I'm still kick-en. Although a steady diet of them all day long would cause some stress. Your going to have to fix him a special treat, for his good behavior, at least once a week. It would also be helpful if you and Skippy stopped eating all the good foods in front of him, talking about how delicious and good the food is while he is eating his bland tasteless food. So give him a break.
I had some Lean Cuisines in the freezer a while ago when I was trying to lose 5 lbs. My husband came along, and he ate three of them in one sitting. Then he microwaved a 4th just to eat the dessert, and he put the rest in the fridge. He said they were good, but I said that he kind of defeated the purpose of the ';Lean'; part of Lean Cuisine. So I guess my hubby could eat a whole bunch before his head popped off... but his pants buttons would probably pop off instead. :D
It's ok for convenience. They are handy, but it's probably not the best thing to eat exclusively. I can't eat them mostly because I am a vegetarian, but when I did eat meat, I would say I could eat about 5 a week or so. Other than that, I start craving other foods.
It may be that his medical condition does require special cooking, but on the other hand, learning to make simple easy dishes can be fun. For instance, you need to find what he can eat.
Oftentimes, you could pre-make certain foods that freeze well and then heat them up (for instance, chili--you could make it vegetarian if he needs a low fat diet).
I dont think he'll eat one.
Just the way he looks at me when I sit down to dinner. I fix the rest of my family this awesome, yummy meal, that I spend all day cooking. Then I sit down with them, with a lean cuisine in front of me. lol! I think he feels sorry for me!
oh, lordy lordy my husband would never eat Lean Cuisines, so you got it made on that one honey
i have a meat and potatos kinda guy
so i will speak for him and say ';0';
4,729 - after that you start with bleeding out the nose followed by out the ears after 5,167. After 6,456, you die upon putting the fork in your mouth.
Three. One is OK on occasion. If I had to eat them for two meals in a row, I'd be very unhappy. After the third one, my head wouldn't so much pop off as it would explode in gustatory disgust.
Well most lean cuisine portions are designed for women on a 1,200 calorie a day diet. Most men are practically starving on 1,200 calories a day and need at least 2,000.
Maybe he's just hungry???
Will friend I don't know because I don't like them! All i say is after you give him one step back,his head is going to roll and you better get out of the way!
If all he can eat is Lean Cuisine for food try find other foods like that and tell him that if he wants to live longer he needs to chage his diet and cope with what the doctor has recommended. Good luck
I have never eaten lean cuisine, I like frozen entres but enjoy good food as well. Look for healthy quick food cookbooks.
Not too many for me, but he's the one who gets hunger attacks. Does he have diabities maybe? The Adult Unset kind?
By the third meal you'd be looking for the duct tape and stapler, no doubt.
My husband eats one a day for lunch at work five days a week.
Depends on the frequency. I think three per month is tolerable.
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Right up until he files for divorce.
LOL!! I dont know but please repost and let us know the answer when it happens.
my husband wont even eat leftover much less a lean cuisine. He loves his home cooked meals.
One a year is more than enough.
I would max out at 8.
I wouldn't eat one of them.
Better his head then his pant buttons!lol
So Husbands: Tell me.. How many can you eat before your head pops off?How many Lean Cuisines can a wife serve a husband before his head pops off?
lol Oh my Gawd I'm laughing at this one....okay, which head, Toots......lol...just the mental image has me cracking up...I'd say give it a week...and NO MORE COOL WHIP %26amp; OREOS, and....BOING! hahahahahaha....
..and I have a cranky Baby at times too...he's type 2 diabetic with a horrible sweet tooth and love of homestyle southern cooking (he's from Atlanta Georgia) I do my best...no frozen foods but all this healthy eating is gonna cause a head pop here one day, I'm sure. I offset it by letting him have his fav sausage gravy %26amp; biscuits (mine's da Bomb!) once in a while..it neutralizes the head popping effect....lol still laughing.How many Lean Cuisines can a wife serve a husband before his head pops off?
I actually enjoy a lot of the Lean Cuisines, etc...they just aren't that big and usually need something else.
What you might want to try is dressing up the meal. Instead of serving it in the plastic container it comes in, try putting it on a plate. Take a few extra seconds to zap another frozen veggie to go with it, or get some dinner rolls. You might find your husband finds the meal more enjoyable because it actually is a meal.
If that doesn't work, give him a beer to drink with it. That should solve everything.
Well I do not think his head will literal pop off, I eat them every day and I'm still kick-en. Although a steady diet of them all day long would cause some stress. Your going to have to fix him a special treat, for his good behavior, at least once a week. It would also be helpful if you and Skippy stopped eating all the good foods in front of him, talking about how delicious and good the food is while he is eating his bland tasteless food. So give him a break.
I had some Lean Cuisines in the freezer a while ago when I was trying to lose 5 lbs. My husband came along, and he ate three of them in one sitting. Then he microwaved a 4th just to eat the dessert, and he put the rest in the fridge. He said they were good, but I said that he kind of defeated the purpose of the ';Lean'; part of Lean Cuisine. So I guess my hubby could eat a whole bunch before his head popped off... but his pants buttons would probably pop off instead. :D
It's ok for convenience. They are handy, but it's probably not the best thing to eat exclusively. I can't eat them mostly because I am a vegetarian, but when I did eat meat, I would say I could eat about 5 a week or so. Other than that, I start craving other foods.
It may be that his medical condition does require special cooking, but on the other hand, learning to make simple easy dishes can be fun. For instance, you need to find what he can eat.
Oftentimes, you could pre-make certain foods that freeze well and then heat them up (for instance, chili--you could make it vegetarian if he needs a low fat diet).
I dont think he'll eat one.
Just the way he looks at me when I sit down to dinner. I fix the rest of my family this awesome, yummy meal, that I spend all day cooking. Then I sit down with them, with a lean cuisine in front of me. lol! I think he feels sorry for me!
oh, lordy lordy my husband would never eat Lean Cuisines, so you got it made on that one honey
i have a meat and potatos kinda guy
so i will speak for him and say ';0';
4,729 - after that you start with bleeding out the nose followed by out the ears after 5,167. After 6,456, you die upon putting the fork in your mouth.
Three. One is OK on occasion. If I had to eat them for two meals in a row, I'd be very unhappy. After the third one, my head wouldn't so much pop off as it would explode in gustatory disgust.
Well most lean cuisine portions are designed for women on a 1,200 calorie a day diet. Most men are practically starving on 1,200 calories a day and need at least 2,000.
Maybe he's just hungry???
Will friend I don't know because I don't like them! All i say is after you give him one step back,his head is going to roll and you better get out of the way!
If all he can eat is Lean Cuisine for food try find other foods like that and tell him that if he wants to live longer he needs to chage his diet and cope with what the doctor has recommended. Good luck
I have never eaten lean cuisine, I like frozen entres but enjoy good food as well. Look for healthy quick food cookbooks.
Not too many for me, but he's the one who gets hunger attacks. Does he have diabities maybe? The Adult Unset kind?
By the third meal you'd be looking for the duct tape and stapler, no doubt.
My husband eats one a day for lunch at work five days a week.
Depends on the frequency. I think three per month is tolerable.
One
Right up until he files for divorce.
LOL!! I dont know but please repost and let us know the answer when it happens.
my husband wont even eat leftover much less a lean cuisine. He loves his home cooked meals.
One a year is more than enough.
I would max out at 8.
I wouldn't eat one of them.
Better his head then his pant buttons!lol
How can you concieve a baby quicker with your husband?
Once again, I was just curious. What things should you/your husband avoid? And what techniques/positions should you use?How can you concieve a baby quicker with your husband?
Your husband should avoid tight underwear. You can use any position but I've heard that you (the female) should also try to have an orgasm every time, the spasms draw the sperm closer to the cervix. Also, many women will lay on their backs afterward with a pillow under their bottom. Gravity will help semen flow towards your cervix. How can you concieve a baby quicker with your husband?
Have sex in the missonary postition and do it 2 days before you ovulate on the day of ovulation and 3 days after.Sperm can live up to 5 days and the egg is only present 12 hours on the day of ovulation.The idea is to have sperm waiting there to fertilize the egg.Try not to do it everyday because you need to give the sperm time to build back up.
You should avoid having sex alot before you ovulate. Tell your husband to keep cold things away from his ';man'; (like swimming in a cold pool, etc....) I don't think the position matters just be sure that you don't rush to the bathroom once your husband is ';done'; you have to give the ';boys'; a chance to swim. The dollar store has ovulation tests that work great. Good Luck
I just read a little about this at my library a few days ago. Women should avoid caffeine...just one cup of coffee a day can lower your fertility up to 50%!! Also, cut out nicotine and alcohol. Take prenatals...I don't think that helps fertility but it assures a healthy you and baby...For men...they should smoke no more than 20 cigarettes a day...and no more than 3 cups of coffee or something like that.
Relax, a large percentage of women get pregnant during a holiday.
don't make love for two weeks begining with the first day of your period and then every second day after that. Keeps the sperm count high.
Swallow a watermelon seed.
Your husband should avoid tight underwear. You can use any position but I've heard that you (the female) should also try to have an orgasm every time, the spasms draw the sperm closer to the cervix. Also, many women will lay on their backs afterward with a pillow under their bottom. Gravity will help semen flow towards your cervix. How can you concieve a baby quicker with your husband?
Have sex in the missonary postition and do it 2 days before you ovulate on the day of ovulation and 3 days after.Sperm can live up to 5 days and the egg is only present 12 hours on the day of ovulation.The idea is to have sperm waiting there to fertilize the egg.Try not to do it everyday because you need to give the sperm time to build back up.
You should avoid having sex alot before you ovulate. Tell your husband to keep cold things away from his ';man'; (like swimming in a cold pool, etc....) I don't think the position matters just be sure that you don't rush to the bathroom once your husband is ';done'; you have to give the ';boys'; a chance to swim. The dollar store has ovulation tests that work great. Good Luck
I just read a little about this at my library a few days ago. Women should avoid caffeine...just one cup of coffee a day can lower your fertility up to 50%!! Also, cut out nicotine and alcohol. Take prenatals...I don't think that helps fertility but it assures a healthy you and baby...For men...they should smoke no more than 20 cigarettes a day...and no more than 3 cups of coffee or something like that.
Relax, a large percentage of women get pregnant during a holiday.
don't make love for two weeks begining with the first day of your period and then every second day after that. Keeps the sperm count high.
Swallow a watermelon seed.
How do you get an honest opinion from your husband?
I am seriously sick of getting answers like yeah its fine or yeah whatever you like. It seems like he is just saying what he thinks I want to hear. He can never form his own opinion. How can I get a real answer out of him?How do you get an honest opinion from your husband?
He, like the rest of us husbands eventually realize that you don't want an honest opinion. Whatever we answer is either; wrong, stupid, starts you either laughing at us or crying for some reason. We've learned to just say what you want to hear and get it over with. Example: Do I look fat in these? If we say no, you come back with ';you're just saying that, I can never get an honest answer out of you. ';, if we say yes ';we are insulting,don't love you any more or something silly. I'm sorry if you don't like this answer, but guys out there...am I right? Just see how many men agree.How do you get an honest opinion from your husband?
Ok. Let me break it to you.
1. Please note that answers like ';its' fine'; or yeah ';whatever'; means that he is not really interested in the outcome of the subject matter. So you can do what you want etc.
2. He keeps the answer short and simple. Why complicate things? Didn't you just hear him say fine?
2. He does have an opinion. In his opinion, quit asking questions that you know the answer to already. Or how about you just leave him be. If he has an opinion he will give it. If not, leave him be.
Maybe he doesn't have an opinion or really give much thought about to what you are asking about. Try asking him a question about something he is interested in, and he'll probably have very strong opinions.
If he is only saying 'what you want to hear', maybe you are overly sensitive to honest answers.
I would just flat out ask him for his honest opinion, mine does it and I have no regrets asking for it. Maybe he might be afraid you would get mad at him. Just let him know how can you have an honest relationship if he can't express himself honestly to his wife about anything you ask. Be sure you can handle the truth.
he's probably learned after years of you being a b*tch to him and harping on everything he says to just shut the hell up so you quit riding his *** and he can live the last remaining years of his pitiful life in peace.
You probably get those answers because most of the women that I've ever associated with will argue with you if you answer in a way that they don't want to hear. So why ask in the first place if you don't want our answer?
If he is not giving a descriptive answer he might be preoccupied or unintrested and not care. When it comes to a imprant decsion makes sure you have his full attention and you should get a better response.
The correct response to ';Whatever you like,'; is ';Thank you!';
If I think he's blowing me off - I call him out on it (aka. turn of the tv). My husband is an honest person by nature (sometimes too honest) so it's not usually a problem for me...
Ask him 5 seconds AFTER orgasm... it's when men are most honest.
Withhold the prize
I am in the playpen with mildred
he doesn't want to start an argument. Just tell him you really want to know
yes, your @ss do look huge in those jeans you just bought.
He, like the rest of us husbands eventually realize that you don't want an honest opinion. Whatever we answer is either; wrong, stupid, starts you either laughing at us or crying for some reason. We've learned to just say what you want to hear and get it over with. Example: Do I look fat in these? If we say no, you come back with ';you're just saying that, I can never get an honest answer out of you. ';, if we say yes ';we are insulting,don't love you any more or something silly. I'm sorry if you don't like this answer, but guys out there...am I right? Just see how many men agree.How do you get an honest opinion from your husband?
Ok. Let me break it to you.
1. Please note that answers like ';its' fine'; or yeah ';whatever'; means that he is not really interested in the outcome of the subject matter. So you can do what you want etc.
2. He keeps the answer short and simple. Why complicate things? Didn't you just hear him say fine?
2. He does have an opinion. In his opinion, quit asking questions that you know the answer to already. Or how about you just leave him be. If he has an opinion he will give it. If not, leave him be.
Maybe he doesn't have an opinion or really give much thought about to what you are asking about. Try asking him a question about something he is interested in, and he'll probably have very strong opinions.
If he is only saying 'what you want to hear', maybe you are overly sensitive to honest answers.
I would just flat out ask him for his honest opinion, mine does it and I have no regrets asking for it. Maybe he might be afraid you would get mad at him. Just let him know how can you have an honest relationship if he can't express himself honestly to his wife about anything you ask. Be sure you can handle the truth.
he's probably learned after years of you being a b*tch to him and harping on everything he says to just shut the hell up so you quit riding his *** and he can live the last remaining years of his pitiful life in peace.
You probably get those answers because most of the women that I've ever associated with will argue with you if you answer in a way that they don't want to hear. So why ask in the first place if you don't want our answer?
If he is not giving a descriptive answer he might be preoccupied or unintrested and not care. When it comes to a imprant decsion makes sure you have his full attention and you should get a better response.
The correct response to ';Whatever you like,'; is ';Thank you!';
If I think he's blowing me off - I call him out on it (aka. turn of the tv). My husband is an honest person by nature (sometimes too honest) so it's not usually a problem for me...
Ask him 5 seconds AFTER orgasm... it's when men are most honest.
Withhold the prize
I am in the playpen with mildred
he doesn't want to start an argument. Just tell him you really want to know
yes, your @ss do look huge in those jeans you just bought.
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