Its possible hes cheating himself. Hes jealous of you or whatever. I guarantee u hes cheating actually. Most people that accuse the partner of cheating are the ones that are actually doing the cheating.My husband thinks I am having an affair with a work colleague?
It's called an emotional affair and it's as damaging, if not more so, than a sexual affair. You crossed the line into inappropriate territory when you began confiding your personal problems to a married coworker. Google ';Not Just Friends'; and you'll find out what an emotional affair is and how to get yourself back on track in your marriage. Leave married men alone. They should not be available to you as an emotional confidant. Apologize to your husband and try to get him into counseling with you.
Then have your husband stop by the job and show him around and hold his hand that's if you love him like that. It should put it to rest unless boyfriend is a cold hunk (the guy from work lol) I saw affairs at so many jobs emotional affair that eventually lead to physical ones! That wounded deer look you know when you tilt your head to one side exposing your jugular in that flirty way guys take this as a sign you want them and they will pursue you must be aware of your behavior at all times on the job.
As far as you husband deal with this quickly before its gets out of hand.
Smooches
Tough situation. All you can really do is try to assure your husband that nothing has been going on. And keep telling him that every time the subject comes up. Eventually he'll get the idea that nothing really happened. That being said. A lot of men figure that a man and a woman can't be just friends. Without sex entering the picture at some point. I hope everything works out for you.
So you are asking this again for what? I think, to a certain degree, you like being called a slut, or is that slutt. You sort of wish that your husband would tie you up, and have his way with you. Maybe break out a little leather whip, blindfold, and other accessories, and call you dirty names while taking you.
Or am I mistaken here, and it is the colleague you want?
You really must know that if you are truly a therapist and family counselor like you have answered, you should be able to understand that putting your confidence in another guy is betrayal of trust ( therapy term).
You have betrayed his trust and he is reacting overboard but reacting appropriately.
Why can't you see that you are wrong?
How good of a therapist are you?
';Physician heal thyself';.
What happened?
Has your husband always been possessive? it sounds either like he is a control freak, or that something is bothering and he isn't feeling confident in your feelings for him.
Talk to him if it's the second one and make him know how important he is to you.
If it's the first one, then I would suggest some sort of marriage guidance as a first step.
OK so not a slut. No problem.
So you have a 'work spouse' like millions of people do. No big deal. Someone you work with that you like being with and talk to about things.
No big deal. Nothing has to go any further.
Yet it could...late night...a common trip....and you'll be doing wifely duties. Just goes with the terretory.
Don't explain to hubby that part. Just a freind.
BC
Why don't you guide him (indirectly) to the site http://affairspotter.com and let him buy it and check you for signs to satisfy himself
He doesn't trust you....? Trust is necessary in a relationship, especially in a marriage.
Whats a relationship without trust???????
People who put guilt on someone else,is usually the guilty one~
Confront him.
suuuuuuuure ; )
just turn on female charm with husband and remind him how much you love him
what is your question.
Give more details, what's the background here?
And your question is WHAT?
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