What to do if you know that a husband cheated on a wife just 4 hours after she gave birth to their baby?

And he was all the time with her, and very supportive, then he pretended that he had some things to do on his office, and went there for a short time, and afterwards - to another woman, and then went back to the hospital?


And you know all that, and what to do then?


And that baby now is 4 days old?What to do if you know that a husband cheated on a wife just 4 hours after she gave birth to their baby?
Mind your own business. Let them work it out themselves.What to do if you know that a husband cheated on a wife just 4 hours after she gave birth to their baby?
Its hormones.





Midwives and nurses get hit on all the time.





I would stay quiet.
if that was me, i would really want to know about it....however i dont know if i could handle it straight after having a baby. In a way its none of ur business, but id to know. If u cant sleep at night, send him a secret note saying u know what hes up to, and if he doesnt come clean within a week youll let her know.
The best thing is to tell the husband that you know what he has done and he has a choice either he tells he or you will


before you tell her you must asses her start of mind as this could encourage the baby blues you will really need to be their for her


Before doing so asses the situation but if i was her i would want to know


same thing happened to my cuz i told her it was very hard and i hand to be their 24 / 7


but it worked out for the best


ONCE A CHEAT AWAYS A CHEAT
the man needs a new doorstep to park he's stinkin' asset on....
if i was the pregnant wife with all those hormones i think i would kill him and maybe even get off as mentally unsound lol





i would be pissed i think i would tell the other woman first i mean its not garenteed not to happen again this way but it would probably dive the mother into a deep depression if you told her but if i was the other women and heard he just watched him wife give birth and then came to me to get his jollies it would make me sick i wouldn't ever want to see him again but i of course would never be the other women i see no excuse for this
Well, you see, for me and I am just being honest here and myself, other people might have different ways, to go about this, but if I knew a husband was cheating, I would confront him first and not his wife who just gave birth, her hormones are really going crazy, and she is really sensative and taking care of her baby, so the best way is to confront the father, and then let him tell her when he thinks it is time.





Or I would tell anyone that knows this man and tell him what I am observing and I really do not think that is fair, for crying out loud she just gave birth to his child and for the sake of both mother and child and her sanity, I would tell anyone I know of his misbehavings.





Please be really careful of her feelings, because if she hears this right now, you do not want her to end up with Post Partum Depression and get overwhelmed with all of this!





But definately, I would confront the father, by doing this, you are saving a new mom's sanity, and putting that cheating husband in his place!





Also if he is having an affair, I hope to God that he did not transmit any sexually transmitted diseases to her and her new born baby!
Keep your mouth Shut.


What goes around comes


around and he will get his!!


What a DIRTBAG


Send him an anonymous letter


telling him what scum he is.
nail him died.


who goes cheat while a wife is in labor ?


he could go 2 hell.
OMG!! That is devastating! Well i would wait for a while till mom gets past postpartum depression then tell her, or maybe not say anything unless you are close to her.
I know the popular answer is going to be, ';Stay out of it.'; However, if I were the wife I would definately want to know right away. This man is endangering her with potential STDs and making her look like a fool. I think she has the right to be told.
In nursing we were told that STRESS can cause an increase in sexual urges. I certainly found male patients who were raring to go, and I'm anything but sexy, and everyone has heard how nurses get extremely uh excited on their nights off, a reputation that is admittedly earned. Stress may have alot to do with the husbands need to go to another women and bonk his brains out, stress relief. They should talk about it after some time has past and the trauma of the birth fades.
You tell the husband that you know, and if he doesn't tell her by a certain date, you will! All these people saying to keep your mouth shut are terrible! How would they feel if their partner was cheating and other people knew but they didn't. What you need to keep in mind though, is that your friend may not believe you. You need to be prepared for that, and not be angry with them. Just be there when she comes around and needs your support. At least you'll know you did the right thing.
There is no point in just telling her, as she isnt likely to beleive it. She needs to see the evidence for herself, and then give her as much support as possible, as she will need it to gain enough courage to realise she can carry on her life without him.
Nothing - it's (a) none of your business and (b) if your are friends with either of them (husband or wife) it will kill the friendship if you do tell.
oh f$%* thats messed up...tell the the mother who just gave birth straight away!!! u cant let sumthin like that without telling her
she absolutely, positively should be told! But NOT NOW!!!! She will be extremely fragile and need her husband now more than ever! I would wait until the baby is a few months old, then find a way.


How utterly devastating for her. That makes me very sad.
I would suggest talking with the husband. Letting him know you know, and tell him you will support them through it all but he must tell.


Adultery is not always the end of a marriage. But it is the beginning of the end if not addressed.


His acting out could be an indicator of something going on with him emotionally...first baby, scared of parenting, financial stress...etc... and these are things that should be talked about WITHIN a marriage, not dealt with by acting out because that won't solve anything.


Perhaps thay had problems before the baby, or there may be underlying things you are not aware of.


Not to justify his behavior, but just saying that, there is a whole history of this couple at home you may know nothing about.


I do think he should be put on the spot and encouraged to deal with it. Maybe they could start counseling or something.(If he choses not to tell, then he at least knows his secret is not secret anymore)


Be supportive of them BOTH. They will both need it.
Sometimes that old trouser snake just takes over.
I'd leave his sorry a~ss. Why wait? You KNOW that if the relationship starts out that way, that he is a no-good, downright jerk. So you options are (A.) leave him now and get it over with or (B.) wait another several years, be more miserable while he treats you like dirt and THEN leave. I'd go for option ';A';.
You seem to be very well informed; that has me a little worried. Either way I were you I would keep my mouth shut. You don't, you'll be asking for trouble.
Uhhh....I don't care how 'stressed out' the husband is.....tell that woman so that she can protect herself from STDs and have her baby checked. He's not going to stop just because he's a daddy now. Come on, ....I would want to know right away, no matter how painful and I'm a mother of 2 and know all about postpartum and hormones. TELL HER!!
And you know all this how.... are you the other women...
First of all, how do you know this? Is it a rumor? Never believe anything unless you saw it with your own eyes. Secondly, there's nothing you should say or do. Sooner or later the girl will find out for herself what an as- she has for a husband.