My Husband and I having been tryng to Concieve for 2 months and nothing Help?

My Husband and I have been trying to concieve and I have been tracking my Fertile days and Nothing I am getting anxious Because we really want a baby but nothing. I don't have any mucus that I can notice during the month so I am concerned about that as well. I need advice really bad and serious advice. We both don't know what we are doing wrong either can someone help us please.My Husband and I having been tryng to Concieve for 2 months and nothing Help?
There is only a 25% chance that you will conceive in each cycle. It is considered normal for a healthy couple under 30, to take up to one year to conceive. So the first thing you need to do is relax and be patient. Stress and worry will not help you concieve.





Here is what you can do to maximize your chances of getting pregnant:





Read the book: Taking Charge of Your Fertility by Toni Weschler. The book explains your cycle, charting and how to get pregnant. It is a great book and a must read! Check out the website: http://www.fertilityfriend.com/ Buy a basal thermometer at the drug store. Start charting your waking temperature so that you can get an accurate picture of what is happening in your cycles. This information can aid you in having sex at the correct time.





The only day you get can pregnant is when you ovulate. The day you ovulate, your body releases the egg. The egg lives a maxium of 24 hours. However, sperm can live up to five days in fertile cervical mucus but most live three days. Your fertile phase are the 3-4 days prior to ovulation and the day of ovulation. In order to maximize your chances of getting pregnant, you would have sex every 24 hours during this time. Unless you think your partner has low sperm count, then you would have sex every other day during your fertile phase.





In order to know when you ovulate and when you are in your fertile phase, chart your waking temperature and observe your cervical mucus. This is the only accurate way to know when you are ovulating- charting your waking temp. Other ways are just guessing and are not accurate.





In order to get pregnant you need fertile cervical fluid/mucus. The cervical mucus consistency varies through a woman's cycle. The consistency of your cervical mucus changes during the cycle due to hormonal fluctuations. You are considered most fertile when the mucus becomes clear, slippery, and stretchy. Many women compare mucus at this stage to raw egg whites. The amount of this thin mucus will steadily increase until you experience your 'mucus peak'. This is the last day of this phase where the chance of conception is high. It is closely tied to ovulation. During this phase, the sperm's survival rate is higher. Here is some information of cervical mucus.





Stages of Cervical Fluid: Post Menses


Stage 1: Lasting 2 - 3 days CM is Sticky or Gummy


Stage 2: Lasting 2- 4 days: CM is Creamy, Milky, Lotion Like - Beginning of your fertile period


Stage 3: Lasting 1-5 days: Egg white Cervical Fluid - At this time you are very fertile.


Stage 4: Dry, Moist or Sticky (Infertile)





Here is a more detailed description:


http://www.babyhopes.com/articles/cervic鈥?/a>


http://www.fertilityuk.org/nfps401.html - this one has pictures





If you are not seeing any cervical mucus, you should chart your waking temperature to see when and if you are ovulating. It is the only accurate way to know if you ovulate. Also since you do not experience fertile cervical mucus, you can do the following to help:





-use Preseed (see link below)


-take guaifenesin. Guaifenesin is the active ingredient in Robitussin, and Mucinex - over the counter medicine in the US. Robitussin is a syrup and Mucinex are pills. Read this: http://www.fertilityplus.org/faq/cm.html


-Cut back on caffeine and don't smoke.


-Drink at least ten 6oz glasses of water a day.





Some other tips:


-When having baby sex, do not use lube (KY Jelly, astroglide, etc) it renders sperm immobile. If you want to use lube, use preseed. Preseed promotes a sperm friendly atmosphere. http://www.preseed.com/


-Do not douche or use scented tampons. They alter the acidity of the vagina.


-Do not have oral sex when you are having baby sex. Saliva can kill sperm.


-Have sex in the missionary position. This allows for the deepest penetration and will deposit the sperm closest to the cervix.


-After sex, stay laying down with your pelvis slightly elevated/tilted for 15 minutes.





Start taking prenatal vitamins and 1000mg of folic acid every day. This helps reduce the risk of birth defects and promotes a healthy baby and pregnancy. It is best to start at least 3 months prior to conceiving.My Husband and I having been tryng to Concieve for 2 months and nothing Help?
have you been using an OPK?
Conceiving does not always work at the instant, even though you hit the fertile days. Not to conceive in just two months worth of trying is completely normal. It's not a sign that you couldn't conceive.





One thing that might help you: Try to think of something else. It sounds odd, but if you get too anxious to conceive, your chances are a bit lower for it to actually happen - maybe because your inner stress-level is too high. Try to relax. Don't track the fertile days, but just have sex when you feel like it. Read a really good book, or spent a bit more time with friends, pick up a new hobby... and just let yourself be surprised. That strategy will help you keep your sanity - and you are even slightly more likely to conceive as if you spend too much time fretting about it.
First of all relax. Getting stressed out is definitely not going to help you get pregnant. Two months is not that long of trying. Were you on birth control? If so, it may take a little longer to get pregnant. The main thing you need to do is just relax and quit worrying about it and you will be pregnant before you know it.
i am in the same thing as you girl, i cant get pregnant either
Mimi I'm not trying to sound harsh, but 2 months?? Try waiting 2 years to get pregnant, and then once you finally do you have a still born, and can't get pregnant again? That happened to me, so sorry, you don't have anything to complain about yet. It takes nost couples up to a year to get pregnant.
It isnt that you are doing anything wrong. Some people have the luck of concievinh quickly and some take longer than others. You may not have ovulated or one of his men didnt reach your egg. Their are alot of factors that play a part in making a baby that some people just cant explain. For instance My husband and I were trying for a baby for eight months and then we finally became pregnant. We have had unprotected sex all the time after that and I have only became pregnant in the month of december. So far we have been together for 4 years and I have been pregnant every december since 2005. So some people get pregnant when they are ready or when the time is right. Dont rush it it will happen when it is your time to happen. Just remember everything happens for a reason. Good luck it will happen.
When you check for cm are you actually checking your cervix? If you are and there is hardly any or none at all try using pre-seed. This is our first month trying. I have heard of a many women who got pregnant the first month using it. Some have even been trying for years, then they tried preseed and got pregnant on the first try with it. I am really excited about using it. Also, try drinking a lot of water. If you are dehydrated you will not produce much cm. This may be TMI but I remember last November I was drinking huge amounts of water (I am a long-distance/marathon runner) and I noticed one day I actually had watery cm run down my leg. I hope I could help. Good luck!
Well... 2 months is nothing in the ';TTC world';. I am just finishing my second month TTC and waiting on my period to show up (hope it doesnt). As much as I would love to be pregnant, I am also more than aware it can take a HEALTHY couple up to a year or more. One of my good friends who is only 24 just got pregnant this year, after 6 years of unprotected sex. It takes time, and will only happen when the time is right.


My mom took 6 months EACH time she was TTC and that was with BBT, charting, everything.


It seems that when you're not stressing over it, THATS when it happens. If you're constantly thinking ';please let me get pregnant, please let me get pregnant'; you're going to make it harder for your body to concieve. I want to get pregnant more than anything but I also keep telling myself ';it can take time, and it will happen when its meant to';.


So two months is nothing. Be patient and just have fun wth your husband.





Good Luck~
2 months is nothing, if after 1 year you are still having trouble you can see a fertility specialist! It took me 4 years!
Well first of all it take the average couple 6 months to 1 year to get pregnant. Have been you stopped taking birth control? That may delay you, being that your body needs to get back to regulating itself. Keep trying, and tracking your days. If you have a regular 28 days cycle, start babydancing every other day starting from day 10-20 to cover your time. If your cycle is irregular I suggest OPK.
Two months? There are many women on this board who have needed years to get pregnant. It is totally normal for it to take up to 6 months. Even a year.





Relax and let it happen naturally. Stressing after 2 months is only going to make things more difficult.
me and my hubby have been trying for a baby for 4 years and still no luck . you just have to keep going and try make it fun . if you get stressed out it wont help . good luck
Keep on trying it will happen when the time is right!!! If you were on any form of birth control that can take about 3 months to get completely out of your system depending on how long you were on it. If you weren't on any BC, than I would recommend seeing an OB/GYN, and make sure that your body is not preventing you from getting preggo! If you have already done that, then next have your husbands sperm checked to see if they are active and fertile. Last if you cannot do any of these, then just keep on trying, also every time I got pregnant my hubby and I always had sex the day before I started my period. It will happen, when the timing is perfect so be patient, don't give up and just pray!


My husband and did all the things I listed above in order to conceive.


I also was recently told that researchers say that if the woman has an orgasm after her man injects his sperm then her cervix contracts and holds all the sperm for a longer period of time. That info Is somewhere on the web, so I am going to try to look for it and I'll post it on here for you later! Like I said timing is everything, and it will happen! Your husband and yourself just have to be patient!!! GOOD LUCK!!!