Sunday, August 22, 2010

What do you do when you know your husband lies over dumb stuff?

My friends husband is a sweet sweet guy but he lies over really foolish stuff. Sadly, it breaks my friends heart because she loves him so much but he just won't step up and admit what ever she questions. The worst thing is that now he is hiding a potentially dangerous problem (over indulgence in diet pills) that could ruin his life and theirs. She is devastated - what should she do? How can she change a person who is unwilling to change - without leaving him for good?What do you do when you know your husband lies over dumb stuff?
You can't forcibly change someone if they aren't willing to cooperate - the whole point of change is that you are willing to commit to it because you are trying to reach a certain goal.





They really need to work on communication - what is the reason behind the husband lying (is he ashamed to tell the truth or afraid of being ridiculed?). Once you understand the ';why'; - makes it easier to work on a solutionWhat do you do when you know your husband lies over dumb stuff?
they should seek therapy to work on his communication skills or lack there of.
kimmy is right..but getting him to go is going to be hard..
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